Way back when, we would often do our jobs and go about our lives based on what tribe or village needed.
We would marry based on the status of the person or family we were marrying into.
It's not really like that anymore though…
Increasingly, we want to sign our work with what we care about, what we think is important. Research suggests that we increasingly want our values to align with our work, or we will look elsewhere.
You want to feel like you've made a difference, like you matter. It's inbuilt within you.
This presents a bit of a problem though…
Instead of accepting your life for what it is, we demand the freedom to make of it what we want.
The problem is, most people don't know what they want. There’s so many possibilities out there of what you can do and who you can be, we subconsciously allow our:
Friends
Family
Boss
Politicians
Celebrities
and companies…
to influence us and tell us who we should be.
It leaves us feeling lost, directionless, confused, frustrated.
We lose our way with what we're supposed to be doing, because we end up doing things that don’t align with who we actually are.
We lose our sense of confidence when we aren't living a fulfilled life,
Lose our sense of self when we don't really know what we stand for anymore.
It leaves you feeling, “There must be a better way than this…”
And there is.
I studied confident people for years, reading and researching around the area, and discovered some shocking yet simple things
Things that have hugely increased my confidence and own sense of fulfilment and purpose.
I coached myself through the process, making many mistakes along the way, but coming out of the other side a completely transformed person.
This launched my coaching journey, and I now have the absolute privilege of helping people find their own fulfilment, develop their own unshakable confidence, and live lives filled with clarity and peace.
If this is something you want in your own life, I'd love to have a chat with you and see how I can help.
Book a call below, and let's develop your own sense of fulfilment 🙂
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